Q:

Hey mommies today I want to share that how I feel
sometimes I start miss myself the moment which I used to spend with my husband because of which I think I m not a good mom feeling depressed and alone which effect my relationship 



Sheetal Sharma

i think everyone feel in d same way
same with me yrr
but try to accept d situation
kuch time apne nd apne hubby ke liye nikalo
jab baby so jaye tab unse baat karo

Priya Sood

Hey Tanvi!!! Pls never ever say you are not a good mom. You love your hubby. A new mom does face this You are not alone. I miss my girl gang. So work around it!!! There is always a way. You MUST MUST MUST try to ensure baby sleeps early every night from the start. That gives you more time alone and with hubby. Plan a special date with hubby.

Priya Sood

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tanvi verma

Thnx Priya sood and sheetal Sharma my baby sleeps early most probably by 10 but he Z Bussy and tired so he also  sleep and I watch TV and sleep after some time

Priya Sood

Hmmm...idea...plan a special date night on the weekends..

Sheetal Sharma

hehehe same with me Priya
Mera bada beta toh bas dhayi saal ka hai
nd he hate me nd baby :(
Reason is k baby k aane k bad mai use time ni de paa rhi

jb mere hubby ofc se ghar aate hai wo bas bade bete k sath hote hai

Priya Sood

hehe sheetal ..its tough but not impossible..time is such a precious thing. We keep wanting more of it.

Sheetal Sharma

Hmm dear
i jst accept d situation
nd trying to do my best

Sumira Bhatia

tanvi verma you are a mom and that is a LOT of responsibility.  you're doing the best for your child . you are NOT a bad mom.  what is wrong with wanting to spend time with hubby?  absolutely not! and it is normal to feel overwhelmed sometimes and wanting to be with hubby.  take out time for each other.  leave the baby for sometime with your mom or MIL.  and the Two of you do something together.  or take the baby out amongst the two of you.

aradhana sharma

hey tanvi, don't be disheartened, it happens when we feel this, as a women we face so many changes in our life , after marriage , after having child,its natural but sometimes we start feeling depressed also due to certain stuck circumstances, u are a very good mother , a mother is best in always for a child , and surely after sime time with efforts you will be able to spend precious moments with hubby also, don't feel sad, try to solve something which is going inside you, take little time may be 30 minutes for yourself , it will relief , best you shared with us....keep de loading the pressure , don't worry every thing will be in place , hugs and love....

Dhara Popat

hey dear. we can understand your feelings.  almost every mom pass through this phase in life after having kids.  such thoughts cme in our mind because our routine has changed totally..  apple of n eye is the baby now..  poor little thing is all dependent on us n we r totally behind him to male him happy n satisfied. in free tym we feel that how life has changed dramatically..  but it will b on track soon dear..  dnt worry.  even with the kid try to express ur feelings to ur hubby
if nt face to face than through msgs..  spend tym with him too

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