A confused woman : We are in our 4th year of marriage and we want to have a baby now. My thoughts on this varies very much from my husband's. I have always wanted to adopt a child rather than have a baby as I feel there are several children out there who need parents like us. My husband thinks otherwise and has been a topic of tension between both of us. He wants us to have our own child. Can you moms out here give some suggestions on how I could convince my husband for adoption?