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Be Supportive & Non- Judgemental
I and my husband were in love until my baby happened to me. He has stopped showering the affection he used to, love seems to be dwindling away. I am anyway going through a lot with a new born, can someone not understand my emotions? I feel at times why I should stay with my husband anymore!
REAL MOMS,REAL SOLUTIONS



Smita Biswal

Post partum depression and insecurities happen to most of us. During this phase we need care, love and support. caring for a new born is 24/7 work and without any love and help it gets difficult. Your husband has also become a Dad. He might be feeling anxious, responsible, happy, worried. This might reflect in his behaviour. I would like you to give him sometime. Slowly try to sit and talk with him when the baby is sleeping. Tell him your feelings but in a positive manner. No blaming and all. Tell him that you love him so much and now you love him more as a Dad. Give some time. Ask him to help u in small n baby chores. See that he is a part of some or the other things.

Dr.Srujana Kona( PT)

I completely agree with Smitha.

Anamika Saha

i also feel d same..u shld talk n share ur feelings wid him..dnt think in negatv way..smtime we used to tk thngs in a wrng way..dnt wry..evrythng wl b fyn..

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