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Feeling guilty...plz help ladies...meri beti dedh sal ki hai,woh khel khel mein khana kha leti thi,par aise mein mujhe use khilane mei ek,dedh ghanta to lag jata tha...mere ghar par mehman aur rishtedar continue aate rehte hai to iss wajah se mein apni beti ko khana khilane mei utna time nhi de pati thi,nhi to mera baki kam reh jata tha...to meine dhire dhire use phn dikhate khane ki adat lagayi,isse woh ek jagah baithkr jaldi kha leti hai...but ladies mujhe pata hai yeh bahut galat hua,..kyuki meine kuch cheeze observe ki,meri beti gusseil aur jiddi ho rhi hai,ab phn k Bina woh niwala leti hi nhi,pehle woh khane ka maja leti thi aur ab kuch bhi dalo muh mei use kuch Lena Dena nhi sirf videos on chahiye.... really feeling very guilty ladies..bachhi hai woh,ankhe masalti hai bich bich mei,it is happening jst bcz of me...help me,uski adat kaise chudau..Abhi chuti to thik hai nhi to iske side effects achhe nhi hai...plz help.



Madhuri, Sabse pehle aap relax karo. Screen time, especially phone dikha kar bachhe Ko khilana is not correct, Lekin kafi time hmlog Aisa karte hai jab koi option nai hota to. Kyuki nuclear family mein rehne se saare kaam khud Ko karne padte hai, to obviously pura time bachhe Ko khilane mein nai de sakte. Achha hai ki aapne realise Kiya. Sabse pehle, aap uske khane ke time usko bolo ki aaj hmlog ek new game khelenge.. balcony mein le jao, usse cheezein dikhao, trees birds sun moon wagerah. Kahani sunao, khana banate time, usko kitchen mein help karne bolo.. usko kuch katori chammach de do, vo aapko khana banate dekhegi to aap batao ki ye kya hai kaise Banta hai. Is tarah usko interest ayega aur vo khana chahegi... Uske liye dher sare picture books lekar aao Jin rhymes ko vo dekhti hai vo books mile to aur achha.. distract karne ke liye. Park mein ghumane le jao. Usko notebook and crayons do, usually Colors se bachhe kafi khush hote hai.. uski new plate lekar aao. interesting way mein plate Saja kar khud khane Ko do.. aur phone mat do. Khud bhi uske samne phone use mat karo, except for work. Zid karne se bolo ki phone kharab ho gya ya kuch aur. Vo cranky hogi, khana nai khayegi, Lekin strict raho. Usko distract karne ki koshish karo. Ultimately usse bhookh lagegi to vo khayegi. All the best.

Apne realize Kia wahi badi baat hai.. guests hon ya koi bhi first aap baby ko dhyan se Khana khilayen then sabka khayal rakhen.. mobile avoid Karen.. stories sunayen ya balcony Maine birds dikhayen aur khilayen.. .. batein karte rahen ... Guests agar Hain to unko bhi story telling Maine involve Karen.. isee wo bhi bore Nahi honga..

Kavita sahany use stories Abhi smjh nhi aati...bate kro to sab smjhta hai bt stories nhi smjhti use

Hi dear, tension mat lo, ab hum mom bhi kitna sambhale ho jata hai. Just yeh mera post padho apko help hogi,
Maine apne bete ki addat kaise chuudahi haihttp://app.babychakra.com/feedpost/113344?ref=Vi36b8e&


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