Anonymous: Be supportive
I feel that the bond is missing in my marriage after having a kid. All we talk about is child and chores. It's funny that I have to search for other things to talk about. Does this happen? Why? We are the same.

Always! I just had my 2nd baby & m going thru this phase again. U can try to rekindle ur romance by jut sending short messages to ur husband... giving him surprises.. his fav food or a dress he loves on u.. just go for a movie... leave the kid with grandparents... once u decide u want to be together again... there will be no derth of creative ideas :) Wish u a very happy life!!

I am going through the same phase

Anonymous: my concern is not on romance but on bonding..connecting...thanks mom for your help

Priya.. Romance is always followed by bonding & connecting... go for dates again... join a common hobby... or just go for a 15-20 min walk together... Idea is to take out time for ur partner... it is actually very exciting... u can talk about work, passions u share or something u both want for ur future like a house... u can plan ur trips together... so much to do... I can actually fill pages :)

It's not my post . Its on behalf of ANONYMOUS...Thanks Isha

go back to ur dating days.. or wen u were engaged to be married or when u were recently married ? what made the relationship alive ?? repeat ?

after having a baby the intimacy quotient goes down.. stay connected physically as well as emotionally. send random msgs to ur husband.

oh ok. hope the anonymous mom gets some motivation from our posts!