My baby is 2.5 yrs old

I am living with my in laws and i am working too on part time not full time

I feed all his meal and daily work

From last few days he used to say everytime to me

Mom jao... and he goes to the lap of dadi and dadu

One reason is they never say anything to him and make him watch tv and i am person in whole family who has to stop for wrong doing

Everyone says in family mummy maregi dategi mere naam se darana

In this situation what to do agar mein na roku tou 24 hrs tv chalta hain ghar me and he will not have single meal

U should take to ur inlaws n explain ur situation,hope they will understand u,as this is the right time to improve his habits

They are not
Now it become like every day fighting type scene at home
Bcz i say something which is not acceptable to them

Is there any parenting coach

U are right sania but its not working

Kavita Sahany Sonam patel what is your take on this?

Hii vrinda, we can understand what you feel. Why don't you discuss about this with your husband? It's difficult to keep the child away from television when adults will watch. So, I guess fixing some time duration would be a good idea. Ask your in-laws to read stories to your child. Engage them together in building blocks, sorting games or even scribbling. They too will enjoy and baby too will be doing something productive. You can search for some articles on disadvantages of screen time to baby and read it to them. Also you keep saying your child that you love him. This will supress this maregi dategi wala part and also badle him gently. Better to sit with them over a cup of tea and calmly start saying I don't want to hurt you but he is your child too. And we need to inculcate healthy habits so I am discussing this with you. Hope they understand.

Hi dear.. i understand.. aap aram se baat karen with in-laws and explain that watching tv will impact the health of the baby especially the eyes .. i m sure they will do it for the sake of the baby atleast. Also try to make your time more interesting with the baby (happier than the tv mbl thing )
Play music , run around , behave like a child.. then the child will understand that mommy is a friend .. make outdoor trips to nature, garden n park and tell small stories .. kids connect with nature easily ..

Kavita SahanySonam patel agreed and i did all that for an hour or 2 they understand then again same
Today only fact happen he did something wrong in front of his dadi and not obeying she started saying me just lock him in washroom i said clearly why always i why not u pls u do once atleast scenario changed both of them again started playing
Always its on me

Hmm.. understand dear... keep trying .. will be fine soon as the school hours will increase then engage the baby in hobby classes. All will be well.. don't worry.. Tc

Oho... Sometimes it's really hard to make others understand.

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