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m very much stressed frm 8,9 days ...actully i got govt job ..but my posting is out of my city ...its abt 1 hr distance ...my 8th  mnth is going ..evn frm strtng this mnth ..i was going here there nd got tired ....frm 3 or 4 days evn m weeping very much ...bcz thy r not postng me ldh ...thy told me tumne toh chutti pe hi jna hai ...i dun like these wrds...evn yestrday i got very much stress nd ma b.p was very low ...evn i cnt stnding at tht tme nd my mind was not giving me signals .... plz tell me wat to do ... bs mere baby ko kuch ni hona chahiye bs .....is these things really affct babies???



hey anon hang in there. sorry to hear what u are going thru. can u start ur maternity leave soon? its govt job so they will give 6 mnths right? pls try not to get stressed out. tc.

Dr.Shilpitha Shanthappa Sheena Kalia pls advise

no dear .... cnt take leave ryt now ...

Priya Sood Gayatri Rao Dr. Payal M pls advise

anon is there any nice lady in ur dept who will understand and help? u need to spk to someone in HR - nowadays govt employees hv to be considerate towards expecting moms. pls tc and pls keep us posted!

thnku asha di for ur concern ...di i talked to ma higher authority but thy r not understng me ... thy jst gve seats to persns who ve high approaches... i requst a lot ...he said aap ne toh chutti pe jna hai ye woh ...

These things will not affect your baby but the stress you are taking will definitely affect your baby. Don't care what they are saying. You just have to complete your work and rush back home. Also take leaves or go home early if required. Your health is more important than your job. You have to take care of yourself and your baby.

hello..
sorry to hear about your job issues.. if possible can you shift to your job place where govt colonies  are there or else take home for rent- which will be easier for you to maintain balance between both... i think it will be best if you shift there.. its not a healthy option to travel for one hour daily that to in 8th month pregnancy.. talk to your hubby and other family members..

just be patient anon and try and ignore. filter. dont let them get to u. as shipra said u being stressed out is harmful. i knw easier said than done. just take one day at a time....

I agree with asha chaudhry take an early leave and talk to higher authorities about your seat after returning from maternity leave.

m jst wrred abt ma baby ... m tryinf to stay happy ...but feeling very down nd sleepy ....

Aww! Please don't worry so much. Your baby is fine and happy inside. Try to distract yourself from all this. Take an early leave and go out with your husband or friends and just keep yourself stress free.

Just keep smiling like the Emoji 😊 you just sent.

Hello Anon..
I think u can go n join for one day n after dat u can apply for Marernity leave...as m also in govt job so i dont think they will consider ur posting in home town...watever may b the reason.so its better to take the job join in n go on leaves n later on u can continue though it would be equally difficult with a 6 months old baby but dear where der's a will der's a way ..n after all dis job will secure urs n ur family s future ..ul be independent ul hav ur own struggle stories to share with ur child...trust me all will settle down....keep smiling n have faith in god ..if he gives u a problem dan der s a solution too.

thnku reshma di... di actuly i joined this job on 20 july ..its ma new job ..morover probation period. .. do u knw tht maternity leave is of 3 mnths or 6 mnths in probation period?

No i hav no idea abt dis..u pls ask dis from ur respective department...

hey be strong, you are doing really well to be working so hard almost till the end of your pregnancy.
this is supposed to be a happy period for you. please evaluate your priorities as if these things are affecting your health then you will have to take a stand for yourself. unfortunately things are not easy for all women on the workfront and become more difficult with pregnancy  and kids. dont worry, just sit down and discuss the matter with your husband or any nearone. as others have suggested, and im sure ur colleagues will also understand that its not feasible to travel so much to work now. so think abt cutting down ur work hours or going on leave. think abt urself and baby first!!

I'm 22 week Pragnant and also in government job. and my posting is 900 km away from my home. I live alone . mujhe ye confirm Krna hai ki pragnancy time me aisa kuch rule hota hai kya ki posting home town ke aas pas hi ho jae ??? ya transfer ke koi rule hain is time me . I m in utter Pradesh state government job.plz suggest me Mai ghar se itni dur akele bahut si problem face kr rahi hu.. plz agar kuch rules pata ho to bataie....

you can go for leave without pay. koi bhi objection nhhi kar sakta, apko bus bed rest ka medical banwake, apke main reports ke sath submitt karne honge application ke sath, n i think apke pass kuch cl and medical leaves bhi hongi, aap unhe bhi beach bich me use kar sakte ho, please by bus travel mat kariyega it will be harmfull, koshish kariye four wheeler se jane ki, mere saath bhi same problems thi.. im using my all leaves n lwp leaves, it was only the option, baby is more important than salery, or fir bhi agar apke office se prob hoti hain then you should go for leagal option, sab thik hoga. dont be stressed. take care of your baby..medical jarur laga dijiyega bed rest ka.. aap new ho shayad iss liye support nhhi mil raha, office me koi female hoto unse problem share kariye wo khud hi group bana k administration se baat karenge. akhir job to sabko wahi karni hai.. wese govt. me lalchi log bhare pade hain you can go for other kind of settelment.. dont mind please but may be it will be worked.