my 3 yr old son is hyperactive, every now and then he whine. if he want something then he will cry like anything and starts hitting me. i always try to handle him with patience but sometimes I loose my control and starts shouting at him. I don't know what should I do.

Hi. Pls try to talk to your child and understand. Kids need a good outlet of energy. Ensure there is plenty of play and food in the belly. Read stories of good and bad behavior. Applaud baby for good behavior. This takes time and patience

hi vaishali i hear u. my childoo used to whine (still does at times). so whn she was a toddler i explained to her that i dont understand whine language. whn she'd whine i wud nicely say i dont understand! it wud force her to talk properly. whn he starts hitting u phsically lift him up and put him in a corner and explain that hurts, i will talk to u whn u behave. also pls get him a blow up punching toy. my hubby's nephew wud hit me so i got him one and named it pittumal. he stopped hitting me. toddlers dont know hw to vent or spend their energy.

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i agree with plenty physical activity outdoors everyday. helps.

Same boat... sometimes it's frustration and will try to bend us. Be firm with whatever you say. You are mother..and you know better to handle. I just don't talk to her. and say..if you cry...your friends will not visit our place. Then she will be fine. This is a phase.. it will move on.

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hi. I have a very similar problem with my son who is also 3 years old. I thought I would be lucky once the terrible twos were over. but now it's the terrible 3! I try to distract him with songs and activities when he throws a tantrum. I also ignore his tantrums. and politely ask him to do something works better than scolding. dont consider him as a small kid. whatever manner you wish for him to have always convey to him. he will understand and it will get registered in his innocent mind eventually. it's a battleground in the house daily and you have to just take one day at a time! no shortcuts around it!

Hey Vaishali,
Please don't loose patience. Toddler can only be handled by love. Ignore his tantrums. Try to involve him some physical outdoor activities and awesome indoor Activity like painting, block building. puzzles.

I am also facing same girl is very active kid... when she demand something I politely listen what she want...then I ask her is really u want it necessary..... we buy..this...after 10-15 min discussion....she understand.....what I want to say....Its really difficult....😔😔 I know don't loose ur temper..🤗🤗. Do calmly ..❤

Hey Vaishali, mostly toddlers behave like this.  Keep calm and talk as much as you can with your kid.  Engage him with stacking and sorting objects,  colouring books, painting,  ludo etc Politely explain during fun time 

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