hello experts and sweet mummas.....i wanna ask one thing rhat i became mother on 1st august....aaj 5th aug hai or mai us din se hi soi nahi hu mujhe neend hi nahi aati mai har tym bas apne baby ko dekhti rahti hu...aankhe band karti hu to lagta hai mera baby ro raha raha hai or meri aankh khul jaati hai...ghar me sb kahte hai sona bohot zaruri hai lekin mai kya karu mai apne baby k upar se eyes hata hi nahi paati hu....what shoud i do pls suggest something what is this happening to me?

Laxmi..
huggy to u. it happebs for first time moms. Just keep telling yourself that baby is safe. Are u ok with him sleeping in crib or with you. You decide in your comfort. Pls get some sleep

laxmi!!!!!!! pls rest karo. thak jaogi. there is a saying, when the baby sleeps, so does mom! pls uski chinta matt karo. rest karo nahin to baby ki dekhbal kaun karega?

Sumira Bhatia Sonam patel

thank u asha chaudhry di and Priya Sood....i m comfortable with him to sleep with me but problem ye hai ki mai isko hamesha dekhti rahti hu bas...mujhe chhoti chhoti baato pe rona aane lag jata hai ...ye kabhi kabhi doodh nikal deta hai muh se to mai rone lag jati hu kal ye bohot der tak sota raha mere uthane pe bhi nhi uth raha tha tab mai bohot roi....mai apne emotions ko control hi nahi kar pa rahi hu...samajh me nahi aa raha mai kya karu husband kahte hai aise mai iski parvarish kaise karungi

Laxmi, aap jyada chinta mat kro... jab baby so jae aap bhi so jao... Ek maa baby k hilne se bhi jaag jaati hai..toh aap iss baat ki tnsb bilkul mat lo ki agar mai so gai aur baby jaag gya rone lga toh mai nai jaag paungi... ye mat sochna bilkul bhi... agar aap rest ni karoge toh apki sehat pe asar hoga. aap chaho toh ek hand baby k bums pe rakh k so jao jisse apko bhi tassali hogi...
aur dudh muh se nikalna toh common hai laxmi..sabhi bache nikalate hai... aap itni chote chote baaton pe royoge toh kaise chalega.. apko toh apne bache ki strength banna h... apna dhyan rakho... aur fir hum sab toh h hi.

Laxmi Shankar not ur fault! yeh sab hormonal hai! rest karo. zyaada socho mat!

dont worry laxmi...baby abhi chota hai na isliye jyda sota..dheere dheere one ya two month k baad apne ap thik ho jata hai..and doodh pilane k baad use utha kr shoulder k saath lga liya kro or uski peeth pr haath ferna..phir doodh nhi nikale ga..or ap ache se neend lo and baby ka dhyan rkho..aansu to khush k hai laxmi..😊

thanks a lot Sonam patel...asha chaudhry di...alisha Bali....u all are right dear....mai dhayan rakhungi aapki baato ka...thanks a lot u all...love u mums......

Laxmi Shankar I would suggest you have a sound sleep when baby is sleeping.  That should be a gala time for you because when baby is awake you know you can't sleep.  I am desperately waiting for this gala time when I can sleep my way that I missed during 9 months.  Your baby is all yours. 👍😂💞