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Hello mommies...
Virat is going for school, first day he was very much excited and he dint cry, 2nd and 3rd day he cried.. now every night before he sleeps he is telling i will be with mumma, i dont want to go to school.. Does kids do same? And For how many days? He is 2.6 yrs old..and i am also worried on Why he is thinking of tomorrow..
Plz share ur experience..



I remember one of our momstars Amreen's son did the same. He enjoyed in the beginning and then started saying I don't want to go. But once they drop them to school he enjoys there. So, I guess that's normal for child to do.
Akanksha Bhuri Mahima Atishaya any suggestion?

Hi dear... I felt as if you are telling about my daughter 😄 first day she didn't cry at all, but second day onwards she cried when we left her in the school, she liked being there but wanted to take us along. This continued for few days till she got habituated, and some days later she would cry because all she wanted was to play in the school instead of coming back home..she too is 2.10 years old. Children do take sometime to adjust especially when we stay in a nuclear setup and only ppl child sees is mom n dad. If you ask my daughter now, she will tell she doesn't want to go, but in the morning she gets ready excitedly and goes nicely now without any issues. I suggest just give him some time, talk to him about school, tell stories about school, teachers and friends, make school going sound like an interesting thing to do. All this should help... All the best 😊

Hi Sowmya... It's something that happens with every toddler mom I believe.. Aarav's first day was with us, 2nd day he was happy but after that for a month he cried for me to go along with him. But after he entered the school it was all happy time.. another thing is separation anxiety, cause all this while he hasn't stayed away from you or family. Suddenly with new people around or new premises can feel a bit daunting for the lil minds. It's ok...keep telling how lovely it is to see him all dolled up for school, how he can make new friends, how he will learn new things at school. Keep telling him that your right outside the gate waiting for him to finish and come. Tell him how much you miss him while he is away and how you like to spend when he's back home ... It's a phase that will pass away soon and he will settle 👋👍👍👍

Hey dear.. this varries for every kid..some are really excited about it and some are not.. some take more time to adapt and some in just a day.. talk to him about the benefits of going to school..say you will meet new friends.. make the tiffin a bit more exciting ..

Thank you so much mommies...😘

Hope he likes his school soon. I sent Atarah to a play date at her cousin's school, she cried initially but later enjoyed. Not sure if she will behave same way.

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