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My son is 3 and half years old.  These days he is becoming very fussy over things. Not only he cries but shows lot of aggression. I try to persuade him,  sometimes scold him and even beat him in worse situations,  but of no use..  Plz plz plz suggest me how to tackle this situation.... 



Hi. Same pinch. My boy had the same. Dear ...it may be a phase but still try to talk about it. In my case i realized my boy wanted more independence. So i treated him as a big boy. Keep talking to baby on how to handle with tough situations. Note down when he fusses. Talk talk  ...more talk

i agree with priya, most of the times its just a phase. try and talk. kids sense our frustration and that why the situation becomes nasty. when this happens, breathe, relax and tell yourself not to react.

wait for the baby to calm down. hug him and give kisses. tell him u understand that he is angry/frustrated/ iraate. can mumma help in any way? what can mumma do that can help u ?

thank you so much priya  and harneet for the great advice..