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hello everybody, I shared already to all for my child ..she is changing her behaviour badly..she always cry.. I m very depressed what to do how I treat her so that she become cool ..I don't understand why she does that ..plz help



hie dear,  u can make an appreciation book for hr. Everyday by the end of the day sit with that book and appreciate her by sticking pic of her fav cartoon character as a appreciation.  u can also rate her from one to ten using star stickers. dnt bribe her with toys or nything els.
once a week tell her tht u will make her fav food as her reward. 
dont entertain tantrums els it will b her habbit to take her work out frm u.  instead think to dovert her mind in smething els. 
there r n number of activities available on net (google it)  to keep toddles busy. tc

is she in school? ask the teacher how she is doing, any behavioural issues.
a 3 yr old understands everything, so try and talk to her about her day, wht is bothering her

Nimmi Rathore, sometimes children cry because they are trying to seek attention. It may also be possible that she has experienced this before that if she cries, she gets what she wants. You could try to distract her when she is crying with other activities (not tv or phone) and ignore the crying. If she observes that her crying is not being noticed then she may reduce

I am sure you have tried a lot of things with her already...I am just making a suggestion that worked for me

Dhara Popat loved ur idea of an appreciation book!!!!

hi nimmi i hear u! big hugs! u hv got brilliant advice from our moms already. in the early evening every day can u take her downstairs to play with other kids? little kids need children's company and also need to spend their energy. riding a small cycle helps. if she throws big temper tantrums pls get her a blow up character and tell her she can hit that person. worked well for my husband's nephew. tc

stickers & stars and drawing smiley faces on hand worked well for my childoo

Nimmi Hugs. Did you try spending alone time with her and talking?

Do try letting her know how much you love her. Do what she loves any activity together

dear first calm and happy whenever you're baby feel like unhappy behaviour or unacceptable situations ...so try to treat your baby polite and calm don't be treat your baby so aggressive....may be some problems with your little girl...try to understand what she wants.... because baby always ready to understand with mom love and caring....

hi... do not worry... u hv to keep urself cool and composed... u gettin worried or angry wil furthur increase d prob. if ur gal is in school find out if anytn wrong ter... any one bullyin her or she is scared etc.. u try spendin max time wit her...make her happy.  take her out .. check if she is health wise ok..try putting love notes in her tiffin... daily write things like i love u.. i care for u.. ur are our life... ur happiness matters..ur the best... u can tell me anytn i am here.. etc etc ...wat ever u wan to write...appreciate her...but if she does anytn wrong tel her its wrong but not angry jus calmly...

don't worry @Nimmi ..see u got so many ideas..u both will get through this...it's not an abnormal behavior... every child is like that more or less...

I can understand Nimmi, my son is 3 yr old and for everything and everytime he cry, and while crying he started beating me. this is so painful to see him like this, I had never thought for such things but from last 2 months I m with my parents for my studies and I had noticed that when my son start his tantrums or cry, my mother and father come near to him and take him up and hug him and ask him to to calm down and talk to him anything continuously, to divert his attention, and after some time he again start playing. now I also apply this trick and amazingly this is working. you should also try this, may this will work with your child.

Hai Dear... have patience. I guess you and baby need a break.. this midterm vacation plan for some trip to nearby place or you can visit your mom's place. Schooling is a whole new experience for kids. They are going through many things. They need your love and support. You stop being depressed and observe her. You will come to know..why she will cry, or why she will be upset ? you need to search the root cause and then try to help her out. You are blessed with cute baby. Just more attention is required. Don't worry... things will settle.

thanks to all of u..n love u all moms for ur valuable suggestions will try sure n tell...thank u again😊

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