Pls tell me im not the only one. Every day is a struggle with no one else but myself. Im trying to be a good mom, supportive daughter, friend and also starting my small business from home. I feel like i need full marks on all but am hardly passing. Whu do i feel this way?

hi anon, everyone feels this way. there are always too many balls in the air. and very little appreciation :) my 2 cents - pls find happiness in small small things and dont be too hard on urself. prioritise and dont try to please everyone :) just be urself!

Sumira Bhatia Sheeba Vijesh Dr.Dhanya Prajesh Priya Sood

hi dear, its not just you... its hard to please everyone around you, and be happy... be yourself, take time out for yourself... and its ok not to get 100 out of 100 all the time... being hard on yourself will only burn you out faster...

hi...ur not alone...i myself fibd it so difficult at times ...i jus wanna run away... i get so frustrated i cant do things i did perfectly..nw everytn is jus done not perfect... its hard as a mother to keep track... its jus a phase...as child grows we can be more normal and perfect...rite nw in life the importance is the child...nothin else

hi dear. please don't try so hard. life will go past without appreciation. think about yourself. once you are happier, the world will seen better

I just happened to see a video that was just shared by a friend over whatsapp. You got to watch it, you will get your answers:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K0TJckfmKak

Neha Agarwal that was an awesome video!!! 👍

anon you are ONE person . . you do what you do and start enjoying it . . don't try toooo hard. . the day you start enjoying, everything will fall into place. chose happiness instead of simply playing so many roles .. just be yourself . . that is more than enough  💞

hey anon please don't be so hard on yourself... instead focus on all happy things in your life.. I m sure you will be a great mom, great daughter and a really amazing business woman.. just trust yourself, be happy and give yourself enough credit for what all you doing..

Dear Anon, No one is perfect and you cannot make every one Happy. Only thing matters is your 100%. Just give your 100% and be happy. It's very hard to be a mother and you  are already giving your 100% in all the relationship (being a mother, daughter, friend and an entrepreneur). You feel that you are not passing but  I feel that  you are a superwoman. Just continue on what you are doing and be happy.

you are a mom right?? which means you are already special... we all try to give 100% in everything...I also feel I have to be perfect all the time... whether it's cleaning, cooking,  working, teaching ur kid about something...we all go through this phase..I think u should just stop being so hard on urself....
be happy always. if u r happy everyone around u will feel happy... remember Happy mother raises happy n healthy kids...don't wry... whenever u feel something u can come to us..vent it out n leave it ....tc

Please don't be hard on yourself. You can't keep all the people happy all the time.  Do what makes you happy . Take care

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