I have a 3 year old. Lately her tantrums have reached a new high. She hits back, refused to obey and is scared of nothing. As a last resort I have to raise my voice even when I know it's not right. But all attempts to expkain; distract or give a time out are failing. Don't know what to do. Because of the constant yelling she doesn't even want me around when it's fun time which makes me feel super bad but if I don't get her to eat, take a bath or sleep on time, it's a bigger issue.