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Hello to all I always wanted to have a girl and boy child. At first I had a girl child and then second also I got a girl child. Which I am not ready to accept yet as apart from socity jibe even I am feeling incompleteness which I find wrong and very wrong but I am not able to attach with my second daughter. I am in a guilt of being a bad momma and also I feel like my elder daughter doesn't have a brother and also my family is incomplete. Plz someone help is it postpartum or something else



Hey, your family was complete with even one daughter. So, please don't think this way. A boy child can not complete a family. And it's okay not to have one. Your elder one has got a sibling and that's what matter. And you can consult a therapist if you feel it's PPD. I too didn't bond instantly, it took time and its completely fine. Breastfeed well, massage time will help bonding too. Talk to the baby. Take care.


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