During sex am not able to enjoy for a long time am getting out of it within short span of time which has became a big problem to me to conceive can you suggest some solution to it .

Satarupa B Kaur

Dear I guess you are stressed.; See sex needs to be seen as natural and love making instead of just a way of conceiving. Build moments, awesome ambienece and tease your senses. Foreplay is as imp as the real action. Make sure you keep this in mind instead of focusing on if the deal will end in a 👶.; Hope you get this in the right spirit. Good luck.


Thank you satarupa same was suggested by doctor so i left job it has been 3 months since I left job but even then am not able to

Satarupa B Kaur

Job has no link unless it's very stressy and you must rather continue a job to be occupied during the day. Take offs, leaves and early offs but why do you want to focus just on conceiving and not have space?


Its been 3 years since our marriage nd my in-laws nd parents r waiting for a good news even we too r eagerly waiting to have baby

Satarupa B Kaur

Darling,; I so so understand you but the best you can do is be happy, have a life, and enjoy it. That will lead to harmony and automatically more love. Sex and conception will stem from these.
Also, seek medical assistance too and have faith. In yourself and God.

Neha Agarwal

Ritu Hinduja Ritu Hinduja pl advise

Revauthi Rajamani

I think its the peer pressure that gives you the stress.
Take a break relax as satatupa said love making is not jus a way of conceiving, it should go naturally.
If you are comfortable, before indulgence into sex, talk something that turns you on and makes you feel relaxed with your partner. Don't jus make it happen just like that.
If you can take a break from routine, travel to some other places for a change of atmosphere, be stress free n relax.. Focus on Relationship I hope you take it in the right motive....

ritu singhal

Hi Anon,i agree with both Satrupa and Revauthi.
I will tell you a secret,go for a trip just with your huby,dont think anything,just enjoy,forget and relive your honeymoon days,elope to Kerala,its a beautiful place. I attribute my wellness to kerala trip a lot!! Or just chose any place of your choice,but do take a break. I can understand,i had a stressful job as well,i left it too to be in peace. One more thing,download ovia fertility app,it tells you when to take that shot,do visit a gynae and rule out any issues with health,until i visited one,i dint knew i had pcos. Talk to gynae that you are trying to conceive,she can test you for ovulation and can give you support meds,it worked for me,might work for you too! All the very Best! Loads of love and blessings your way! You will soon be asking question here on app about pregnancy..💞💞


Thank you ritu hoping for good vibes 😊

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