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Hello everyone i have asked already about my daughter school refusal; .; Maine bataya tha ki woh school nahi jana chahti hai aur ab 9 months ho chuke hai admission ke starting me jab bohot jyada roti thi maine gap kiya tha but ab main usko 2 months se continue bhej rahi hu fir bhi koi improvement nahi hai even her condition is getting worst day by day ab sick ho jati hai bar bar itna roti hai.. woh already thin hai aur abhi aur thin ho rahi hai ro rokar..; ab uska summer vacation hone wala hai.. again gap ho jayega.. mujhe kuch samajh nahi aa raha woh itna kyu ro rahi hai.. abhi woh highest level me rone lagi hai puri strength lagakar uski rone ki awaj school se bahar bohot dur tak sunai deti hai aur pure 2 n half hour tak gap kar karke roti hai aur breakfast bhi karna chod di hai school me aur ghar ane ke baad thik rahti hai but chidchidi ho jati hai and teeth bitting bhi karti hai sabko ghar pe.. is this normal behaviour ? I did everything to send her school..like usko story sunna ,uske sath jyada play karna ,usko outside ghumana ,usko favorite toy dena, usko rewards dena , uska favorite breakfast dena tiffin me,; icecream dena daily,; chclate dena.. jo chije main usko pahle nahi deti thi abhi sab de deti hu ki woh royegi nahi and fir woh bolegi ab main nahi rowungi mamma promise again same thing she cry too much and nothing is working.. please tell me ab kya karna chhaiye mujhe.. main usse puchti hu kya prob hai woh bolti hai mujhe mamma ke sath rahma ghar me.. tell me ab main kya karu..



hi khushi - sorry to hear this. aap pls counsellor se salah le lo. it will help both parents and child and understand ki problem ka root kya hai? also i suggest u pls put her in hobby classes everyday - fun activities - painting, art & craft, singing, dancing - jo woh pasand karti hai. uss se class ki aadat bhi pad jayegi, gap nahin padega, aur usse yeh bhi samajh mein aayega ki not all classes are bad and teachers can be fun also. does she have any friends in her class? pls playdates karna shuru karo. roz shaam ko park mein jao. but pls seek professional help.

food-wise pls check Fun recipes . use shapes and colours.

Thanks asha chaudhry i will do that.. main jald hi kisi counsellor sw milungi and will update..

Have u spoken to her when she is in good mood that what's wrong in going to school? Why she doesn't like it? What's her expectation? If yes please share her thoughts.

Hi
Nothing is so pathetic than seeing your kid cry the lungs out and we don't even know what to do next.
Try this could be a small thing but it means a lot to them. Few parents told me this helped their child better at school.
Give your child one of;personal items. From a hair clip to an old watch, let the kid have one of your items during school, with the promise of returning it at pick up. This not only gives the kid a piece of you, but reassures that you will be back to pick him up soon.
If any day ur kid has not cried at school find out what made her not cry and pacified her, this could help you find solution.
If nothing seems to work or your caregiver reports that she cries the entire day find out at school if u can spend a day sitting in a few hours of the day to observe,
If not finding a facility or a new caregiver that better fits your child’s temperament will help else talk to your doctor .


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