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Besides unexpressive he z harsh too ... He planned it . who m i to plan anythibg.. He; think himself superior. According to him m good for nothing; zero . he told me yesterday..
I just ask him to spread clothes outside.. He denied saying din bhar krti kya h.. I said kapde papa ne dhoye h tumhare aake.. And he burst out.. And called my parents saying kya sanskaar diye h .. Lejaao ise yha s...
What would i do... Feeling like everything is shattered ...



Mrs. Chhoker

Sona plz don't feel sad dear. A big tight hug to you. What's your in-laws take on this. I think you both need to calmly talk on your problems. It is necessary. You can consult some counselor or some elder you both trust. Plz at least give it a try.

sona

In laws.... Forget about them ..they would be happy after listening all these.... We live here alone... When i told them about my pregnancy my m-i-l said "thik h"....

sona

We are not talking to each other since last night....

ritu singhal

Sona,it takes TWO of you to foster a relation. Just relax! If he doesn't chose his words,atleast you can! Else,nobody can extinguish the resulting FIRE! talking of my experience,guys are rugged. Though,its not okay for them to be harsh but you need peace of mind for yourself and the baby inside! So much stress won't do any good to either of you. Believe me,IGNORE! For the betterment of life in general! You are not alone,your little life is with you. Try talking to your baby rather indulging in a tiff with him!

Mrs. Chhoker

Some you need to give time right now plz take care of yourself and eat properly and take medicine. And don't try to drag that matter again and avoid that for now coz you both are not in good mood. Try to divert your mind. It will help you. You can talk to your friends and family venting out feeling always help. Sometimes which we are thinking as big problem is just a sudden anger or rage and it will pass by time

Sonal Swapnil

Please don't stress in pregnancy it can harm your baby. If your happy baby will be healthy. Just forget and forgive. If its hard for you to work you can keep a maid for domestic work inspite of you doing it. Better you do what you like and visit you parents for few days. You will feel nice. Talk to your mom or sister or anyone who is nearby you. Also tell you parents to speak to your husband. Takecare and don't worry. Mayb your husband is also under some other pressure hence he was harsh on you.

Apoorva Bhandari

Sona i agree with ritu. This is nothing. Boys are rash and rugged.. most of them are bcz indian society always teaches sanskars to girls not to boys from an early age..
I am a dentist myself still i have to adjust with husband' s ill behaviour and adjust as per in laws. Pl accept this n u will be happier. As long as ur body allows, do your own work n dont depend on him or else get a maid, if u can afford.

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