Q:

My pregnancy test is positive. . My baby is just 10 months old.. .; What should I do. .. m very tensed



Ritu Singhal

Decide what do you want to do! Can you handle the other baby with an infant at hand?

Sakshi Bansal

My 1 st baby is through C-section. .. itne Kam gap me dubara pregnancy. . Will it effect my health..; or baby's health

Resham Java

Hi Sakshi I understand what you are saying completely even I have a age gap between both the kids of exactly 2 years so I would suggest you please relax come down first of all just think about your own health and speak your why not with your body is ready for this pregnancy also financially if you are prepared for handling to keep giving it a thought and then take a call on how you want to go about it.

Resham Java

Having two back to back c-sections is this side of period is ok but again this should be checked by ur gynac

Mrs. Chhoker

Look as Resham said you have to take the decision after thinking about all the situations. I have also seen ppl having kids soon for one or other reason. So ask your gynac what she is saying, ask your family and it will clear your mind and no need to worry you can take any decision. Things are still in your hand. Keep us posted. Tc

Sakshi Bansal

Resham Java how did u manage 2 babies ... is it fair with first baby to have 2 nd one so early...;

Ritu Singhal

Sakshi,for c-sec moms ,another baby is not recommended until 3 yrs. That's what my gynae told!

Resham Java

Sakshi Bansal; Sakshi I feel that we take too much pride in saying that I am planning a baby but we forget that we are destined to be with kids as well so if you are blessed to be having two kids you will be blessed come what me what I'm trying to say is that it's important that you make sure that you express your love very well to both your babies that means comforting them with your emotions so when you take care of your emotions well and not taking into consideration that your older child will feel jealous of the younger one or vice versa when you go great it is important that you give your hundred percent your old baby while you're pregnant and while you deliver for the first year because the younger one does not expect anything.. except nursing sleeping in diaper change but you can definitely talk to your baby and most importantly involve your older child to do stuff for your younger child and there is the bonding where it actually begins so you create a no show that Bond well so that there is nothing left for negativity to enter but after all we all are humans and we do feel neglected at times and do feel craving for love at all times so be of love in abundance for both her children and I don't think it's a problem in fact they grow beautifully as twins and you don't actually have to put in much effort for the younger one because they just look up to the older one and grow and definitely IQ is not age can find where is the other milestones of physical development are confined so it will be a one time learning effort for you but the gain will be twice all the best wish you lots of love and luck.

Ujjwal Mishra(SuperMommy)

Take your doctor's advice. It might affect your health as giving birth to baby takes away so much from your body that you need at least 2-3 years to regain the strength. But it is your choice.

Sakshi Bansal

I opt terminating my pregnancy.... I can't handle two babies...

Mrs. Chhoker

Plz Sakshi go for some permanent precautions for this time coz all this affects you; ask your gynac and go with something suits you. IUD is good option

Veena

Hi Sakshi, i can totally understand your problem as i have gone through the same phase. My baby is 10 montjs old now and last month my pregnancy test turned out to be positive ( ,i had IUD inserted but still i was conceived which is a very rare case ) after discussing with my husband i have got it terminated as we both were not physically and mentally ready for it. So you discuss with your husband and family and take proper decision ,finally its you who has to take decision by considering the elder baby also

Ruchi Srivastava (shilpa)

My mom had 4 c sections at the intervals of 1 nd half year. At that time it was possible then why not now. My moms dr is still a old nd reputed dr in my city. I think u should talk with ur family nd ur dr too who earlier did ur operation. Its not a problem at all to giver birth babies at intervals of 1.5 years. Good luck.

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