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I have noticed many a time, all my conversations with my hubby are around our childoo or the household. Does that happen with u too? I mean, where did that fun-loving couple go? Okay - we do talk about new places (restaurants) in town to visit, movies, other cultural activities, but by and large all our conversations revolve around her!!!
So sometimes she has a b'day party to attend - then we "kill time" - go grab a coffee or run some errands. We even grab a movie if the time is right and if we know the other parents well :)
Do you feel this way as well? Are all the conversations about the baby/childoo only??!! What do you suggest we should do to change this?!



Revauthi Rajamani

Hey
This is the state of mist of us I hope many of you agree. I kind of plan a holiday but get hooked up with kids classes, home work, house hold work, when I sit back will think of getting some rest for few minutes. Life changes and its a phase too. I'm planning since a long time to go out for exclusive couple dinner but held up with my little one. Yet I know I could make it up someday ☺️, not very far post My kids school reopens

asha chaudhry

Hey good luck with the couples dinner Revauthi Rajamani ! It wud be so nice to eat in peace without worrying about these lil ones!!!

Reshma Kudva

asha chaudhry My girl is just 4 months and I am already missing the personal time with my husband. I too would love to know how do others manage to keep the romance alive!
Moreover for me, since my baby co sleeps with us, getting intimate with him in our own room now seems awkward to me 😄

Dr. Payal M

Yes happens with us tooo!!
I don't think it can be stopped haha
We hardly get time without both kids- either one is always hanging out with or around us 😁😀😀🤣

asha chaudhry

Reshma Kudva we did a whole session on this!!!

Aditi Ahuja

It is a reality with most of the people I know..though all my conversations with my hubby are not about our daughter, but yes that golden time sliping away slowly..never seem to get we time alone..all the more difficult in nuclear set ups...all we do is wake up till late on Saturday nights.. Watch a movie..dono if its age, boredom, how much of what we can talk with the same person..work related stress and remote controlled like lives but it has sucked out the fun part of a marriage!!

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