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My baby is 2 months old. presently I am at my mother's home. my in-laws are very rude. they don't care abt anything. my husband also shows the same behaviour. is it going to affect my baby's health if I take stress. I am very stressed. no one calls or asks abt us. what to do. plz help my friends. 😖



Hetal Mungpara

be positive n be calm n be happy n enjoy become a mom
don't take any tension n stress.prove that u r a enjoyable mom in any situation.

Firdous Aafaque

just try to ignore everyone and enjoy your motherhood..it's the new phase of your life

Rakhi Puri (beautyofmommying)

u can stress about ur situation but what is ur baby's fault? think about the baby and look at the baby when u think about any stressful stuff

Sheeba Vijesh

Dear Anum, a big hug to you from all mommies here... please do not stress.. The baby should grow with lot of positivity around him. Try to talk to your husband openly that you are stressed out and why. if possible attend a counselling session together. pursue some simple hobby when time permits...

Sonika Singh

Hi Anum... please be happy no stress enjoy your mother hood
...Let her be rude.you be yourself...pay attention to your baby...just 2months old...Talk to your husband y are you behavior like this....if onone call or ask about you...y it's affecting you...you enjoy with baby...busy in that....do not thinking​ like this..be positive n be clam..do not take any kind of stress... enjoy your motherhood...talk sing to baby....if still you are still notfeeling gud ....plz feel free to chat with me ...

Priya Sood

Hi Anum. A very big hug. You are important and you are doin a great job with your baby. Stress has an impact on your health so please please fight the stress away. I always believe- one keeps the keys to ones happiness in ones own pocket. Talk abd talk about it. With your husband and also with us. WE ALL ARE HERE FOR YOU. You are not alone!

Jyothi K

hi anum, baby is a beautiful gift from GOD. u should start enjoying each moment with this beautiful gift..... it will reduce stress, whenever u feel stress hug ur baby, play with ur baby....

Rimsha Idrees

hi anum..even I ve gone through d same situation as urs..but believe me n trust Allah as ur bAby grows up she ll attract every member in d house n everyone's behaviour will change with time..now tat my baby s started speaking my in laws ve become v close wt her..I'll advise u to ve patience n take good care of ur bAby..by teaching her good things u r indirectly conveying to all family members how to be a good human..and about ur husband be dutiful towards him ,he ll begin to change his attitude n love his own baby..its true tat actions speak louder than words ..so don't complain or be depress..be proud of ur bAby ..all d best☺pray regularly

Rimsha Idrees

even I've stayed at my mom's place till my baby was 7 months old..if they don't call n ask about u,,better u keep calling them regularly ,tell them about ur bAby development n send baby's pics..speak about ur bAby s health n ask tips how to take care of baby..in this way ur bonding wt ur in laws increases.

ruqaiya khan

hi Anum, i.totally agrer with Rimsha , children are a blessing from Allah subhana talah . ur child is still very small . as they grow older allah inshallah will soften ur husband heart toward it .ur inlaws will aslo follow . try that ur husband spends time ard the baby let him hold it .he is the father inshallah soon he will get attached to the baby n ur bond with him will grow stronger.

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