I just had a baby and now my hubby wants to resume our sex life. I just don't feel like I am ready yet though.. mentally or emotionally.  Any other moms here who've been through this ?? What do I tell him.. dont want him to feel like I am rejecting him :( help.please ..

Charu Sareen Prisha Lalwani Rhituparna Mitra Sheeba Vijesh Sheeba Rizvi Kaushal Sovani

many women feel the same as you.. talk to your husband openly,he will understand. Meanwhile, be sure to show your love in other ways... not just doing the dishes and cooking, but tell him you love him... and men love cuddles too!

husband needs to understand your situation. please talk to him openly. rejection is your thought he might not feel so. please don't assume. communication is the key

i feel the same way.
its already 3 months but i still do not feel like having sex.

Manveen Dua has written an article on this. pls read it. what u are feeling is normal.

How C-Section Kicked My Sex Life's Butt!

How My Husband Sees Sex - this will help you understand your husband's perspective too. Spend more time with him. Give it some time, he will get you. Also the chances of conception during this time is high, so use necessary contraceptives in consultation with your gynaecologist.

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