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Q:

mera betaya main confidence ki bohut kami hai main Kya karu



Naiyya Saggi

Encourage him to start playing sports.  team games help build a lot of confidence. Also don't worry.. kids become and gain confidence over time and with exposure to different types of activities and people.

Roopashree Siddireddy

Aapko kyun lagtha hai ki confidence ki kami hai? Don't worry.. Think positive. Kabhi kabhi hum baccho me ulaj jaathe hai..aur khudh ka Dhyan nahi rakhthe hai...tab Aisa lagta hai ki hamari confidence Kam ho Gaya hai. take care of self. Go for a haircut.. Buy new style dress. Koi bahut din se koi iccha hai tho use poora karne ki koshish karo. Friends Ko call karo. Jyada gulo,- Milo. Above all....,
yaha baby chakra par aao.. aapke profile me dikh Raha hai ki..aapko 8yrs ka baby hai. Please come here when free aur yaha bahut saare mom's Ko confusion n questions rehthaa hai. Aap experienced ho tho answer karo. Aapka confidence slowly badega..jab doosaron se interact karoge.

Sheeba Vijesh

thanks for the tag Roopashree Siddireddy... yaar she meant her son is having less confidence... ☺

Sheeba Vijesh

like Naiyya Saggi said, bache bade hote confidence apne aap ayegi... aur woh agar chup ho, toh uska matlab confidence ki kami bhi nahi hoti hai... aap usko ghar mein zimmedari ki kaamein sopa karo, like ghar mein chote chote kaam kar sakta hai, aur use karne par shabaasi karo. use kabhi bhi negative feedback mat dena, aur kabhi bhi confidence kam hai karke uske saamne mat bolna... aap uske talents ko pehchankar use badhava bhi de sakti hai... doosre bachon ke saath ghul milne ki opportunities bhi dijiyega...

Roopashree Siddireddy

oopsss..Thanks Sheeba... Same.. change hair style, change his style, more get together... encourage if he do something good. Than less confidence..sometimes kids will be more shy. We have to take them out of that shy-shell.

BabyChakra

Here is what Sheena Kalia, psychologist and psychotherapist has to say.
Dear Suman,
Confidence builds with encouragement and support. It's important to help your child cultivate their inner resources discover their unique talents and capabilities.Unconditional love and acceptance is essential to confidence building.
Help them set age appropriate and realistic goals which they can accomplish and take pride in. When a child goes through Failure, disappointment or setbacks , these are golden opportunities for them to rebuild themselves and as a parent to teach them resilience. No one can succeed all the time at everything. This will give them a grounding and understanding that failure is a normal part of life.As a parent it's crucial to be supportive yet help the child be independent. Give praise when required.
Encourage participation in school activities,sports ,physical activity and group activities. This will help them develop skills like team building and how to work in a group.Let them help around the house with small chores this helps them get more responsible and in turn helps them become more confident.
Keep doors of communication always open so they can approach you without fear when they need help.

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