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i m feeling very low thesedays. small matters also makes me cry nd pissed off. i feel very irritated by every unfavorable thing. i live with my husband only. so i m left all alone for whole day. nd my husband never show any excitement regarding to my pregnancy. only once or twice in a month he discusses the delivery. nd when he is home he hardly taljs to me. we dont do anything qualitative that makes us happy. now he has started pointing my growing belly. he aks me to wear loose clothes so that my belly doesn't shows up. its very disappointing for me. but i dont like showing my emotions to him in this case. as i m already tensed about clothing thesedays nd i dont want ending up with jhagda nd all.

pls tell me isme meri glti hai ya mere husband ki that he is not giving me that much attention or its just bcoz of pregnancy that i m feeling so vulnerable emotionally.



y r u thinking like dat usually in pregnancy mood swings bt I think ur hubby do luv u so he discuss about ur delivery n tell u      to wear loose cloths so that u feel comfortable  n u b positive dear dat will make u feel better n try to discuss ur fillings wd ur hubby when he z n good mood surely u will feel relaxed dear tc.

thanks for ur comment sarmishtha. do u see any unnecessary worry or something wrong in my explanation above? i mean do u feel that i m thinking in a wrong way ...?

It is best to discuss openly with your partner that you are having these thoughts. It is Pregnancy related but it also can be a cause for concern. If necessary meet with a counselor as a couple to resolve the issue. Many times men are unable to relate to the Pregnancy till the baby is actually born. You may also want to join a prenatal class where you can meet other mothers and your husband can also attend with you. Open discussion with other dad's in the room can help some father's open up as well.


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