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hi guys rply me asap plssss...ma son s 14mths old nd fa past 45dys i din get prds so tot of checkng at hme...so tdy i did ma pregncy test its postve m so woried bcz i hav a plan of aborting it....s d decsn whc i hav takn s gud r nt pls sugst me plssss m confsd.....i want a clear rply fa u pplz😥



Neeta Nihale

hello dear... that's a really tough decision. .. you have to take a decision n in such case take decision with your mind not with your heart.
look upon each n every topic with your husband example financial,  timing, raising, your health etc etc...
all the best.

Sheeba Rizvi

Hi Annapoorni. ..u should hv taken precaution dear but now as it's positive you hv to think of every pros n cons. if you are financially sound n hv some help at home as well I would suggest you to keep it n don't abort it. you should discuss with your hubby....All the best dear

Annapoorni Vishnu

i dnt hav prbm reagrdg fincly both ma famly nd hus famly r gud n al i mean fincaly,thy wl tak care of me vry wel too...bt m woried abt ma son wl it efct him by any cause...

Neeta Nihale

if your son is the only reason then don't worry dear... it's always difficult to accept a sibling for the 1st child in any age.  every first child has to go through it n after some time they accept it..
keep the baby... siblings are the best companion ever.
love your son more n more.. make him aware on your 3rd trimester that he is gonna have a companion soon.

Sheeba Vijesh

i go with Neeta Nihale... keep the baby, and put in extra effort for your elder son. since they are not much apart, the kids will care for each other very deeply as they grow together...

Jai shri

Pls dont go with abortion,  mentally n physically setup ur mind. as all said keep the baby..

Annapoorni Vishnu

thanks fa al ua valuble answrs...m hpy aft cng al ua rplies...bt sum ppl says tat i shd stp d bf asap r it wl efct ma 2nd

Annapoorni Vishnu

pls rply me shd i stp bf to ma son ryt nw i hav pland to stp on jun

Sanam Motwani Manchanda

plz don't abort.. think about it. ur baby must be having a heartbeat.. don't hurt it please.. financial problems get sorted out in life. mental and physical problems will get solved with ur willpower..
u have fed ur baby for 18 months it's a great time.. now put in a lil more effort and trust me ul be able to manage.. ur son will love a sibling :)
plz don't abort plz

Sheeba Rizvi

No dear dnt stop stop bf it's all natural nothing will effect to ur second one....I'm really happy that you are ready to keep ur baby now....God bless u dear....don't worry about anything believe me ur kids enjoy siblings moments..be happy

Mayo Verma

Remember dear there are many couple who are childless that defines how precious a child is.I know we have to see so many things to raise but trust me its a beautiful gift please dont deny.i went through a major operation and had to remove my left tube as the baby ruptured in the tube after two years i conceive again but baby has no heart beat again so many test and medicine i had to abort then doc advised only for Ivf and am 35 years old my husband support me morally and in all possible ways if we couldnt have baby we will adopt but come 2017 after 2 years from my last abortion i conceive i cannot express the happiness and joy ...i am bless with a baby boy recently....it is my sincere request please dont abort keep the baby.

Dr. Payal M

you need to think over a lot of matters, keeping emotions aside. wud be best if you discussed with your husband first. being a mom of two myself, i can tell u tht u need to have atleast one person who can take care of your first child completely- feeding, sleeping, emotional fulfilment etc. as u will need time with the new baby. you will have to train your first child to accept the new baby- its not impossible just challenging. and once thts done they will be friends forever!! tc
in case u decide to keep the pregnancy, theres no harm in bf. though u shud start weaning  your son.

Sonika Singh

Hello Annapoorni...yes I know your  baby is small.but I think you should not go for abortion.....both kids have gud company.....yes you should stop breatfeed..... enjoy...

Annapoorni Vishnu

wow m so hpy tat i got a valuble answrs frm al...thanks alot thanks m nt gona abort...m.nly confusn was abt bf nw clear abt it too...so me nd cute litl one waitg fa r nxt swthrt😘

Sonam patel

gud decisionAnnapoorni Vishnu good luck.. you are going to start a new journey.. give lots of love to your 1st child..

Sheeba Rizvi

Dear MayoVerma I was so restless while reading ur post but at the end I got a damn relief n smiled..hats off to you dear...God bless you n ur kid....much love to you

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