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Ok today I want to share something and also aaj if I am right or wrong....
M a working lady and my lo is 13 months old ...wo abhi tak feed leta hai ..means pet full hone ke baad bhi usko sirf 5 min nipple suck kar ke sona hota hai...wo bina iske kabhi bhi nahi sota. Ab kuch dino se wo mere office jaane ke time pe nahi so raha aur jab office pahunch. Ke mein meri mil ko call karti hu ki mummy ye kya kar raha hai to she says ki so gaya ye apneaap ..but I know wo ese sota hu nahi hai..
So my thinking is kahin meri mil usko nipple suck karwa ke to nahi sula rahi hai..I mean bache ko kya pata chalega....kyun ki mera beta bhot hyper active hai..usko sambhalna bhot thaka ne wala kaam hai..shayad islie meri mil usko nipple deker sula deti ho taki wo b free ho jae...
I know dis a wrong thought but I don't understand wo mere office jane ke baad kese so jata hai... Aur mein ye kese pata karu..pls advice
Sorry if I said anything wrong here...



Hello dear, kya aapne apne MIL se poocha iske bare me

Anon
It's absolutely a mother's feel I understand. But babies know the difference. They change to the atmosphere around them very easily. If you are too much concerned then you may not ask this way. Once stay home pretend to be busy, ask ur mil to put the baby to sleep. See how she is able to help out the kid. Then you will know the truth na.

Dear aisa ho bhi sakta hai kya apne apni mil se pucha hai ya aap ek baar office jane ke bhane phir se ghar par akar check kr lijiye ya direct puch lijiye ho sakta hai apki mil aisa nahi karti ho kyuki mere beti bhi uske papa ke pass aise hi so jati hai .Or baby maa ke alava aisa kisi or ka nipple nahi suck nahi krte hai.

Revauthi has given you a perfect tip...Ask her to put baby to sleep and see...
Also if you feel so...Ask her like this " baby jab mere pas rehta hai toh bina suck kiye sota nahi hai, aur aapke paas kaise so jata hai mummy, mujhe b tip btayeye" asking her directly can hurt her aur aapko unki jaroorat hai kyuki aap office jaate ho...

I know as mother you might feel bad, we had a Rajasthani neighbours, and I have seen everyone feeding every one's kids. The old ladies of course will not get milk so the babies use to suck and then leave it. Now all are out grown the habit.

बचचे सब के साथ अलग अलग व्यवहार करते है। मेरा बेटा दूघ पिये बिना नही सोता था। लेकिन जब में एक बार आफिस के काम से 2 हफ्ते के लिए बाहर गयी तो वो पापा के साथ ऐसे ही सो गया। जब मैं वापस आयी तो उसने फिर दूध पीने की कोशिश की। आपको फिर भी शक है तो सोनम का तरीका बहुत सही है।

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