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Whatever the mother do for her child she has to face criticism from everyone-from in-laws, her own parents, relatives about parenting style. It's from my experience and I am hurt. What about you all. How true it is to you? Do any of you experienced the same?



Harneet (clanpedia)

there will be lots of ppl to question your ways always. take heart. be positive. no need to take stress.

Priya Sood

My opinion IGNORE! You are convinced that you are doing a good job please stay convinced and do not be bothered. ots so easy for others to point fingers. Be strong. What say Charu Sareen Gujjal, Manveen Dua, Sheeba Vijesh, Roopashree Siddireddy, asha chaudhry. Tag fwd

Charu Sareen Gujjal(TheMomSagas)

Absolutely right Priya Sood. Mothers are always judged even by people who are close to them. The best policy is Ignore. Whenever someone judges me I simply ignore. I do feel bad but neither do i answer back nor try to explain  myself.  We have to be confident in our parenting ways and do not let the opinion of the world affect us. What do you think Sweta Nagubandi, Preetjyot Kaur(mylittlemuffin)?

Roopashree Siddireddy

I agree with Priya Sood. as baby is too small.. every one will be concerned. Just don't mind. If anything good you can take.. take it. Rest.. just hear..no need to listen.

Ashika Imthiyaz

just IGNORE...! every moms facing this issue... kids are different so that parenting too

Arwa Hozefa

u know what's best for us baby . stick to it .. Yes their advice shud be taken but so what u feel is apt

Preetjyot Kaur(mylittlemuffin)

I second u Charu Sareen Gujjal  n Priya Sood...
Parenting isn't a race,  it's about embracing every moment and love n care... Each parent does the best to their capabilities...
I have received some really mean comments from ppl in the family and even from ppl walking on the road...
I have broken all d possible stereotypes of parenting and have seen ppl rolling their eyes... But for all I care...
I have never put a kala teeka on my girls, n I know for sure,  that for a superstitious thing like this I had to fight the world to make a point that Wat I was doing was right...
What matters is that in ur heart u have to HAVE TO believe u r doing ur best,  and that's what matters... I have invented a sarcastic smile for such ppl... I give them that and say nothing now and move on n keep doing what I want to...
Give a deaf ear girl...

Sheeba Vijesh

You are absolutely right. Its as if everyone, except the baby's mom knows what's best for the child. But no one really knows the baby like her mom. So stay put on what you believe is right for your baby, and just smile at other's advises....

aradhana sharma

just ignore, filter and take things, best is trust your instinct.a mother does best for child . any good advice take it as improvement rest leave it..ek kaan se suno dusre se nikalo. focus is only child don't let yourself distracted

Radha priya

just imagine... i m gng get words for having  a baby girl  at first from grt old relatives n cnt dare to show my happiness.. hell is to come 6 may onwards at my in laws place

Sheeba Vijesh

hi Radha priya didnt exactly understand, are you saying you will be in trouble for having baby girl?

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