i feel so guilt that i cannot give my baby food on time when he is awake he wants me arround and keeps on crying always.he has become so lean now.feeling as a bad mom and wife.dont know how to manage


Why the guilt? You love your baby and baby needs your love. Moms are not gods so pls give yourself a break. We all are here to help. Regarding giving food on time. Are you working. May be you can prepare in advance. And if he wants you around just spend a good quality time daily doing something you both enjoy  like a game or books. That time call it Mumma baby time coz mumma loves baby. Do tell more about your situation. We can help
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Sonika Singh

hello Shabil Jamshii ... try to make food when your baby sleeping..keep sum help who can chop vegetables ....every baby wants mother around when wake..He is small.... cook dinner at nite when your husband is there to look baby..should feed baby on time... should not be Guilt .

Roopashree Siddireddy

Hire a maid to do that extra work like sweeping, mopping and washing utensils. Weekend prepare ginger -garlic paste, clean vegetables. you can buy things and grocery online. prepare food when husband is there. Do other important work when baby is sleeping. Keep baby nearby and give some kitchen utensils...like plate, bowl, glass to play ( kids like to play) while you work.

asha chaudhry

hi shabii - has ur baby started walking? if so, thats the reason why he is looking lean! stop being so hard on urself. everyone has given u excellent advice. keep him busy in kitchen while u r cooking. tc and chin up!

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