How to Balance your Career and Child the Right Way

Being a mother should not limit you from pursuing your dreams and shaping your destiny . Here are 10 easy tips that you can follow to achieve a successful balance between career & motherhood.


1. If financial constraint is not the limiting factor, stay with your child most of the time in the first 3 years of life. Even older children miss Mom if she is not around. They need her, not only to listen to their woes but also to share their joys.


2. Take up a part time job


3. Work from home.


4. See that you have a proper person to look after your child in your absence. It could be your husband, your mother or mother-in-law, some other relative or a paid caretaker.


5. Discuss with your husband if he may be able to adjust his work timings order to help out with the child.


6. Make sure that some person is at home when the child returns from school some employers may allow you to start work early and leave early so that you can be at home to receive your child. If it is not possible on a particular day, leave a note for the child with the other attendant (s) as to why you could not be present. Talk to her on the phone. It is not a good idea to allow a child to come to an empty home; she is likely to feel insecure and get into bad company.


7. Do things together as a family whenever possible. See that you have at least one meal together. Spend more time talking to each other or playing simple games together. It may even mean watching a TV programme that the whole family enjoys.


8. Save some money for holidays. These need not be expensive. Plan your travel  in advance so that you can have real fun together.


9. Do not try to be a perfect parent whose home is spotlessly clean, who does social work and who has a prestigious job. Know your limits. See that you have 7 to 8 hours of sleep; that you have time with a common friend with whom you can share everything on your mind and with whom you can laugh (and also cry if required). Make sure also that you and your spouse spend quality time together.


10. Share your feeling with your spouse and children. Find out how everyone can share the responsibility of carrying out household chores.

So do remember this advice, go out and be who you are. For sky's the limit for you. 


Source: Book - Guide to Child Care by Dr R K Anand

To consult Dr R K Anand in person, click here


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Comments (10)



Vidhi Srivastava

this is very true mother n child relationship is above everything ...maybe that's why the financial responsibility is fathers by nature....and a choice for mother :)

Deepali Gala Mamania

thanks for the article, cleared my thoughts and shall help taking my decision for joining office again..

lopamudra nayak

work as a freelancer very difficult full day busy with baby and working till 2 o'clock what should I do.In my case 8 hrs job is easy.like this post ...

Jai shri

nice article..

Pooja

. Find out how everyone can share the responsibility of carrying out household chores.
most of males dont want to understand this y?

Sheeba Vijesh

very nice article...

Rhituparna Mitra

I personally feel this balance is more of a myth...there are days when you lean more towards work and their are other days when your child and family takes priority. The idea is to continue the rope walking, take each day as it comes and enjoy the process!

Rashmi Yadav

nice article

Anuja Bhatia

True in this regard, i have experienced the same thing. I started focusing on my career just when my baby turned 6 months but realised afterwards that noone in the family can actually fulfil a mum's place and give her utmost attention required. So moms if really really its not the utmost priority to take a regular job, just stay close to ur baby as this time of innocence will never b back.

Mrs Ranjan

This is so well written.

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