“I Delivered Through C-section, But it Doesn’t Make me a Lesser Mom”

I delivered my baby girl (on 1st Sep which is my husband's birthday as well ) and trust me it’s the best feeling in the world. I was in pain for 13 hours (that too intense) but my baby passed meconium (poop) in the womb and I had to deliver via C-section.

 

I am writing this for all the beautiful ladies out here. This is my story of  9 months of active pregnancy; walking, squatting and exercising. My husband is in the Indian Air Force and he follows a strict routine and even I accompany him.

 

We have had social obligations; gatherings, where I have danced until the 7th month (of course with precautions).

 

I was told that I will deliver a boy as my tummy was low-lying, small, you’re not glowing, blah blah. As it’s a love marriage, it was 9 months of sheer torture from in-laws side.Restrictions,myths, presumptions etc.

 

Now, you must be thinking why I am telling you all this? It’s just because despite all odds, I made sure I enjoyed my pregnancy.

 

Throughout the 9 months, I hardly gained weight; my belly wasn’t big at all. I delivered a baby girl despite hundreds and I am not exaggerating here, hundreds of people telling me I will deliver a boy.

 

I delivered through  C-section which doesn’t make me a lesser Mom. Because Motherhood is all about feeling.

 

So all you expecting moms out there...

  • Do not believe in Myths
  • Do not relate weight gain and the health of your baby
  • Always listen to your body and believe in yourself
  • Trust your gynaec
  • People will tell you thousands of things but don’t let that affect you
  • Those 9 months won’t come back. If you are stressed, it will affect the baby so keep all issues to do with  in-laws, neighbours, and friends aside.
  • Bond with your baby, talk with to her/him in the womb, listen to music, laugh,enjoy, dance ,do whatever you feel like.
  • Last and most important, trust in God, have faith as everything is planned for your good.

 

We are all blessed to bring another life on this earth.

 

Also read: What must you know about Breastfeeding after C-Section or after Episiotomy?

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nancy singh

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2 months ago

nancy singh

Sumira Bhatia Ellora Mohanty Biswal

2 months ago

Akshaya Naresh

Woah!Your first article!😍❤Congrats darls!!

2 months ago

Sonam patel

congratulations nancy singh post bann gya article...😁😁
Keep going...Keep rocking..  Love you tons.

2 months ago

Ujjwal Mishra(SuperMommy)

Experience, beautifully expressed thru words

2 months ago

Akshaya Naresh

This is so well written.

2 months ago

Shiny Vincent

Wow it's an article now. great Nancy. A mum is a mum no matter how she delivered. 😍😘😘

2 months ago

Sumira Bhatia

Totally loved this article Nancy!!!!! Congrats on the articel !!

2 months ago

nancy singh

Haaye so much in two days first ama , then article mera mann kar raha hai aaj dance kar hi lu 😆&##128518;&##128518;

2 months ago

Kritika Lall

This is just in time

2 months ago

Rebecca Prakash

This requires maximum tags.. I see so many ladies fretting over this C Section for nothing in baby chakra.

2 months ago

Bhrukuti Mistry

lovely article!!! congratulations for your first. aj to dance kar hi Lo coz u Rock!!! nancy singh

2 months ago

Sheeba Rizvi

This is so well written. I love the way you looks everything so positive

2 months ago

Nisha Dayal

This is so well written.

2 months ago

Nisha Dayal

Congrats on your first article.; Keep going girl.;

2 months ago

Nasreen Mansoor

very well written..dear
n congratulations💐💐

2 months ago

Shruti Giri

you go sis!!!😘😘😘

2 months ago

Sheeba Vijesh

wow oh wow... this is a superb article! Congrats dear!

2 months ago

Sheeba Vijesh

Sounds like so much fun.

2 months ago

Shruti Giri

This is exactly what I was looking for.

2 months ago

Priyanka Maheshwari@Momzjourne

awesome.... #beingpositive ..

2 months ago

Ellora Mohanty Biswal

Congratulations!! Loved it... This is so well written.

2 months ago

asha chaudhry

Hey wow! Post bana article!!! Congrats nancy!!

2 months ago

Shreya Singh

good one again :)

2 months ago

Kiran K

good article,loved your spirit to be mom. even i had c section. and telling ppl that i will have boy :)

2 months ago

Durga Salvi

Wow..nancy very interesting..dear,,👍👍👍👍👍👍

2 months ago

Deepti Mishra

it s well written or expressive feeling of motherhood .

2 months ago

Dr.Vidhya Sudarshan

exactly the same thing hpnd for me... everyone told il deliver a boy.. and i was in labour for 13 hours nd ended up having a c section

2 months ago

Foram Shah

i had 2 c section within the span of 2 years. both my babies wer floating till end. my 1st baby was 3.8kg

2 months ago

manvi bhandari

wow congratulations nancy.. its well written.. nd u look so beautifull

2 months ago

Khushboo Chouhan

Woah!!

2 months ago

Ruchi Jain

even I had the experience...
I can correlate with u.. my husband is not in air force n I delivered on 30sep but our story is perfect match

2 months ago

Zegna Fayas

I too had 2 c section within the span of 2 years. both my babies wer floating till end. my 1st baby was 3.8kg n 2nd one was 2.5 kg n everyone tells many things during pregnancy

2 months ago

Rachita Choudhary

Wow.. great work. And yes whatever way you deliver it doesn't matters. All it matters is the unconditional love for the child. #mommyhood #momstar

2 months ago

Kamalini Rao

congrats new mom..

2 months ago

JYOTI Kalra

Subrb article nancy singh love it

2 months ago

Zeba Soudagar

beautifully written :)

2 months ago

Zeba Soudagar

beautifully written :)

2 months ago

Zeba Soudagar

beautifully written :)

2 months ago

sangeeta jha

waw its help me too much bcuz nw i passing with difficult situations

2 months ago

Pooja Dixit

superb . must read for to be moms. 

2 months ago

Ayushi Verma

just same happened with me

1 month ago

Archana choudhury

I wish I knew this before

1 month ago

Richa Kaushik

This is so well written.

1 month ago

Dr. Jasdeep kaur

vry well written

1 month ago

Priya Sood

nancy singh; this is so well written. I too had a c sec and believe in the same. A mother is a mother

1 month ago

Samreen Jawed

thanks nany very nice articel c section mommy's ke liye

1 month ago

Aishwarya Shukla

V nyc and appreciate...i m inspired u....
Mujhe yhi dar rehta hi agr mera c section hua to vapas apne figure per aa paungi ki nahi

1 month ago

Priyanka Bhosale

Sounds like so much fun.

3 weeks ago

Deepika Sandhu

I can relate well with this.. Stress really affects baby.. But keep up the spirits

1 week ago

Nousheen Nousheen

Nice dear i totally agree vit u😊

1 week ago

Aishwarya Shukla

V nyc article

1 week ago

Sudha K

superb

1 week ago

Manikanta Kattamuri

My baby boy also delivered on my birthday.....09 dec 17

6 days ago