When my son Ayan started going to nursery, he was just 2.9yrs old and always preferred staying away from other kids and be in his own world, alone. This always used to bother me. I couldn't find the right reason behind this behavior because he was not even talking that time. There was a communication gap between Ayan and other kids as they were quite fluent with their language and ayan was just learning to talk and frame sentences. What he wanted to say was not being communicated to his classmates. This used to frustrate him and eventually it build up in a lot of anger and voilance. He started hitting kids in school whoever didn't understand him. I was very upset and i didn't know what to do. The heights was when his teacher asked me if they should call for a psychiatrist to monitor his behavior. This broke me emotionally! My child didn't need such a severe step. He's youngest in class but still at par with other kids in studies. The only thing was he was not talking and started talking late, when he completed 3yrs. Everyday i used to love him for 5-10minutes in school premises and encourage him to play with kids around so that he's calm in class and gel well with kids. I did this for a year everyday. My medicine for this kind of anger management in kids was LOVE! Pure LOVE! A mother's LOVE! He's out of it now. He's in Sr.Kg and kids love to play with him as he's the naughtiest in class and he's also teacher's pet because of his prompt replies to teacher's questions.
If your child is having any kind of behavior issues please do them a favor by not taking them to a doctor. Analyse the situation and their behavior. Deal with it in patients and with a lot of Love.
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