Child Behavior!

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When my son Ayan started going to nursery, he was just 2.9yrs old and always preferred staying away from other kids and be in his own world, alone. This always used to bother me. I couldn't find the right reason behind this behavior because he was not even talking that time. There was a communication gap between Ayan and other kids as they were quite fluent with their language and ayan was just learning to talk and frame sentences. What he wanted to say was not being communicated to his classmates. This used to frustrate him and eventually it build up in a lot of anger and voilance. He started hitting kids in school whoever didn't understand him. I was very upset and i didn't know what to do. The heights was when his teacher asked me if they should call for a psychiatrist to monitor his behavior. This broke me emotionally! My child didn't need such a severe step. He's youngest in class but still at par with other kids in studies. The only thing was he was not talking and started talking late, when he completed 3yrs. Everyday i used to love him for 5-10minutes in school premises and encourage him to play with kids around so that he's calm in class and gel well with kids. I did this for a year everyday. My medicine for this kind of anger management in kids was LOVE! Pure LOVE! A mother's LOVE! He's out of it now. He's in Sr.Kg and kids love to play with him as he's the naughtiest in class and he's also teacher's pet because of his prompt replies to teacher's questions.

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If your child is having any kind of behavior issues please do them a favor by not taking them to a doctor. Analyse the situation and their behavior. Deal with it in patients and with a lot of Love.

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Bhavna Anadkat Akanksha Khushboo Chouhan Smitha Prabhav Sania Bhushan Misba Khan Akanksha and Ida (ida_tales) Nayana Nanaware Mahima Atishaya Shristhy thapa(sunam) Sathya Kalaiselven Kavita Sahany Julie Javeria Srishti Biltoria Shivani Job Divya Kushwaha Sulbha Bathwal Priyanka Maheshwari Lubna Shaheen Saumya Pillai Rebecca Prakash Rashmi Choudhury Dr. Jasdeep kaur Amardeep Kaur Mann P K Mili Choudhary jessy oberoi Amol Kulkarni Shifali Kuljeet kaur Goldi Dogra soni Sapna Senthil Kumar Smitha Prabhav Manisha M Nimmi rathore Mili kumari meghana kiran Garima Singla sreekanna Saloni Shah Dolly Abhinav Singh Karishma Agrawal Priya Sood Nilofer Shaikh@mommyingandmore Himani Tiwari Ramji N Parul Johari mrinal borker pawar Shifali Hemalatha Arunkumar Shridevi Pawan Shilwant Srishti Biltoria Yashu Gopichand Neha Kapoor Gill Sonal Chaddha Vrushalee SB Renuka Pillai shilpi Tewary Mariyum Aaquib ( inas_and_mamas ) Neha Suryawanshi jaseena Ghouse basha Sai Rajeswari naghma basit khan Sudha Zainab Kirkire Shreena Meenakshi Kaushik Anjali Saini Neeti Joshi Upasana Rashmi Choudhury Macdalin Suresh Andrew aradhana sharma mudgal Dr.Shifa Manikyam Cherthedath Taheseen Asif Vipra Naik sugeeta khanna Richa Thakkar Krutika Gor Dr. Payal M Karuna Gandhi Avin Kohli Samidha Mathur Muskan Khan Dr. Farah Adam Kruti Nirmal sandeep Isha(www.justamaa.com) Vaishali Naik Amreen Siddiqui Suchismita Sahoo Divya Amit Jain Aishwarya Shukla Nancy Singh Charu Nb Akanchha Dubey Aiswarya Balu manisha Upadhyay Bijal Joshi Lubna Tabassum Sowmya Prithvi (sonu) Kritika Lall Keerthana Gupta Abhilasha Paul Princy K Khurana @Amritha Amritha @themummastartup Roopashree Siddireddy Meghna Tailor Archana Bhosale Sneha Khandait Neeta Shetty Anuradha Vimal Trupti Rohit Bhosale tabassum khatun Parampreet Kaur Eeshita Dekhane Nitika Chopra anubhuti krishna JYOTIk Yashu Gopichand Vani Kulkarni

Awww... Such a lovely boy he is...Farheen Khan ... You definitely did the right thing by not acting violent but dealing it with love....😍🤩

Mahima Atishaya you know he's 5yrs now and he remembers everything. He tells me now that he used to get very angry when he was not able to communicate and when no one wanted to play with him because of his voilent behavior 🌷

Ohh...sweet boy...yes kids do tend to remember the most happy things or the most painful and traumatic things...am glad he has a lot of friends now...tell him Aarav (my son) n I too are his friends now 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩 Farheen Khan

Mahima Atishaya awww soooo sweet 🤗🤗🤗 we would love to be friends you'll are most welcome

Usually when we as a teacher refer parent to school counsellors, behavioural or developmental therapists, parents often mistake and misunderstand the intentions behind it. I do accept and agree tht a teacher's job is to tkcr of all the kids in her class whether30 or 50 but do we realize as parents we have 1 kid to tkcr while a teacher has many. And tending to a baby individually for some dedicated minutes may cost the other kids their time and schedule crunch and therefore the concept like asst trs and therapists have come in n wherein a teacher gets her time to focus on the classroom skills whereas dedicated areas for some kids are taken care by other experts.
I do agree with you when you say all the baby needed was 10-15 mins of your cuddle and hug and love and i wish all the parents also understand this part and tkcr of it at their level than pressurizing the tr to deal with it. I am glad as learned parents many of us understand the need. However many parents still need to understand this part of ecxlusive love giving to the kid.
Would like to add: love is magic and who better than a mother

Mahima Atishaya u forgot my baby even she will be cool friend to ayan as well .
Btwn Farheen Khan nice way to handle kids good share , we must always love love love n be patient with our kids. Lovely post mom. N ur son is so sweet n darling boy.
My mitakshi has no friends either as she has only me n soon she l turn 2 my doll.

Thnq so much 🤗🥰
Yes Sapna...I didn't forget my Mitu baby...she is a super duper sweet gal

Agree with you Nilofer Shaikh@mommyingandmore 👍👍 u should write a post on this ..am sure you will do justice to it

Mom can do anything 💞 lots of love to this post.

Hello Nilofer Shaikh@mommyingandmore 🌷 i really understand a teacher's job and i agree its not easy. Here i am not blaming Ayan's teacher for recommending a Psychiatrist. But this thought nearly killed me. Ayan's teacher has been a second mother to him in class and i blindly believed in her. I have seen her cuddling him, loving him and even feeding him his tiffin. Here i am just encouraging parents to give their best of love to their child before they take them to a councellor. Of Course this is a very very emotional phase of life for a mother and her child.

Sapna Senthil Kumar i am sure she will make many friends just like Ayan. Try getting her down to play in park with other kids and just let her be and the see the magic.

Farheen Khan agree with you. And sorry if i came out like tht but i didn't mean tht you are blaming. All i wante to emphasize is just the way you took matters in your hand and dealt with it many of the parents don't. So it is on us to educate parents about it. And i am glad your post did that. Handling it with love and care. After all, love is all is needed.

Rebecca Prakash thanks for the love dear 🌺🌺🌺

Very nice post 😊👍
Even aayush used to be same like Ayan when he joined play school at the age of 3 .he was only saying words like mom dad in our language .on first day it's self he was crying so lot that I sat for one hour with him and then I left him to home .he was crying I wanted to sit with him but can't I was going to job . every day he used to cry when I leave him at his school sound of his crying was making me painful.i was going through a very tough situation.i was supporting my husband to share the responsibility towards our home mother in law was not well . .she didn't wanted me to do a job.then a month later aayush got sick because of crying every day.on that day itself I left my job because except me no one had a patience to handle my kid .my kid was not giving any response to teachers was not uttering a single word.he was too upset . everyday I sat with him for 15 to 20 mins.i helped him to share toys with his friends.then he started playing with them then slowly he became normal to that routine .i used to talk lot with him in my language .would make him to sit in my lap and love him hug him then play with him in that I thought him ABC stories and nursery rhymes.

Very helpful post n thanks for sharing it

Saumya Pillai you are a very good mother and a wife 🍁🌷

Thank you Sania Bhushan 🌷

Helpful post

Helpful post dear!

super helpful


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