#momathon2 #newbie
VOICE🗣️
Sometimes you are conditioned in way where you are supposed to accept what elders told you in my case my parents were like that but at the same time they always make sure about my comfort i never felt to go against them coz they always did best for me without asking so I also never did feel to speak but things not work like this you have to go out or get married then you will face problem, this habit of accepting thing as they are can coz real problem. you are facing so much but you will never say to this to the person who is creating it for you n they will take you for granted. You need to speak you have to learn to speak for you most importantly. For me my husband is the person who teach me to speak for myself he is the one who poke me to go n speak I really don't know from where he geather all this courage to speak his own mind without hasitating or thinking too much but I m such a bad student that I m still learning but at least I have started speaking for my self without thinking what they will think about me specially my MIL (mind you She is silent killer) sometimes in order to be good in public eyes we are hurting ourselves so much that we don't have any idea that this habit is killing you from inside. It is good to be bad at sometimes we are human too. I m trying to get rid of this addiction of being a good girl every time hope I will get well soon.