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Hello moms, my question is related to my relationship with my in laws. I try my best from my side but they have problems with everything. In short they want me to change my behavior and nature according to them. In these two years of marriage I came to know my Mil started talking to people bad things and all the shits about me what she wants them to believe. And was never by my side whenever I needed her in my ups and downs and just play all the blame games. We don't stay together as they stay in another city but. It's all disturbing me and my mental and physical health. For hubby her mother is the best so cannot discuss this with him. I keep recalling all these things though I don't want to but it makes me so angry but can't express my anger. now a days loosing my control feel really frustrated. Please Any suggestions and advice most welcome. I just want get rid of these hate feelings and how should I manage and avoid these things.



Kavita Sahany

Hey dear just forget it...I understand it's difficult but why do want abuse yourself by even recalling those things ...
Stat cool , believe in yourself do your best and pity people who do not appreciate and understand you a d excuse them for the same ...Since you don't stay together that's even easier just follow your timetable and forget it .people who truly understand a d love you can't change by anyone saying false allegations about you so will ways be with you and people who don't understand you , you should not bother about them ! Chill and relax and be happy !! Say to yourself that u are just amazing :-)

Anonymous

Thank you so much Kavita Sahany; mam

Kavita Sahany

Hope things are better now dear .. how are you doing ??

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