My boy and I visit the small playground in the evening. There is a boy who bothers my boy. No hitting but teasing. I don't want to be the helicopter and over protect. But I want to ensure my boy feels strong too.

What to do

1. Go to another park

2. Talk to the teaser myself

3. Not get involved and let the boys handle it.

Any other.

Bullying is really heart breaking and emotional harassment for a small kid..also even the doer suffers later..you are doing the right thing dear..but just she he doesn't start hitting the child as sometimes people take good nature as weakness..or say things which will emotionally affect the child or that which he takes to heart..tell the boy that how will he feel if it happens to him?....also tell him that you will talk to his parents and also tell your child that such people will come and go in life..what they say or do is complete nonsense and just don't take it to heart..

Aditi Ahuja you are so right. I hope that the teaser's parents know about this and educate the child.

Yes dear have been through this and most of the times parents don't know that the child is doing this..they can explain and help their child also

What would you do Nisha Dayal Foram KModi (Slimpossiblediet) Yogini Kandre Bhavna Anadkat Kanupriya Jain Arwa Hozefa Kavita Sahany Roopashree Siddireddy

Hi priya . Let ur child figure it out first . Explain to him that not to be bothered by it and continue his play . If it's affecting ur son too much speak to the parent or whoever gets the child to the garden. Lastly if u feel that the child is still troubling ur kid u can speak to him directly . Hope things settle soon

I think 1st u watch from distance without their knowledge.... N see wtz d actual prob .. check with dat kid whoz troubling ur son ... n also talk with whom d boy is coming with.. n if he came alone den make him understand abt wt hez doing n den again check wts his behavior after dat if no change talk to his parents as dey should also know abt dere kid ...

I think 2nd ...usse baat krke smjaungi... that its bad manners.... play together n enjoy.... aisa kai bar hua he n dekha he ki teaser me changes aye he... n also said my boy that take it lightly...

3rd because v cant be always wid our kids.. let him handle first nd if doest work den talk wid teaser boy let him explain wats gud or bad wid calmly..

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